What Your Boyfriend Want You To Wear

Single or married, like it or not, we’ve all dealt with this issue. You’ve got the guy, you picked the restaurant, but what are you going to wear? When it comes to choosing your date outfit, and especially for those first, crucial meetings, there’s a few simple rules to keep in mind. I suppose it’s just like dressing for any other occasion. You consider the location, the time of day, the company you’re with and the weather. You want to be comfortable but dressed appropriately, though everyone knows that the very first impression can be a deal breaker. So how do you present a version of yourself that reveals just enough to keep him interested, but not too much so to make him bolt the moment you step foot in the door? It’s all about how you want the guy to perceive you. What do you want to say about yourself? You decide. But if you want him to like you before you open your mouth and blabber about your last break-up you’ll have to put a little bit of thought into the outfit.

1. Show some skin. Whether it’s legs, shoulders, neck and/or arms, men want some eye candy. And most men do like skirts! Though jeans are perfectly fine, if you have the choice, and it’s nice out, go with the skirt.

2. Show a waist, show some shape. Don’t wear boxy T-shirts or oversized jeans. Make sure you can tell there’s an actual female form underneath the fabric.

3. But don’t dress slutty. Unless your intention is to keep the guy in a perpetual state of arousal while you’re having dinner, leave some to the imagination. There’s a fine line between being provocative and being sexy. Outfits that are too revealing can be intimidating, or off-putting, even confusing at best.

4. Don’t wear anything too complicated. Men don’t understand fashion. Start with a simple silhouette and save your fashionable outfits for later, after you’ve reeled him in…

5. Be confident. Don’t lose yourself. If you’re not sure about the outfit, change. If you’re into black, wear it. If you’re a fashion girl, show your colors. You want to be at your best behavior, feel beautiful, comfortable, flirty and feminine. Whether you’re a tattoo-toting rock chick or a spectacled brainiac, boys are impressed by femininity. And if you really insist on wearing sweats and a hoodie, show up with nice hair or some lipstick. Make an effort, even if minimal.